Tuesday, 28 April 2015

The Power of Negative Thinking and How to Overcome It


The Power of Negative Thinking and How to Overcome It

Negative thinking appears to be more prevalent than positive thinking. It seems that with most people, positive thinking requires some effort, whereas, negative thinking comes easily and often uninvited. This has much to do with education and the environment one has been living in.
If you have been brought up in a happy and positive atmosphere, there is more probability that it will be easier for you to think positively. However, If you have been brought up under poor or difficult situations, you will more probably be attracted to negative thinking.
You view the world through your predominant mental attitude. If your thoughts are positive, that is fine, but if they are negative, your life and circumstances would probably mirror these thoughts.
If you believe that you are going to fail, you will unconsciously sabotage every opportunity to succeed. If you are afraid of meeting new people or having close relationships, you will do everything to avoid people and relationships, and then complain that you are lonely and nobody loves you.

The power of negative thinking in action

  • Do you often think about difficulties, failure and disasters?
  • Do you keep thinking about the negative news see and hear on the TV, or read in the newspapers?
  • Do you see yourself stuck and unable to improve your life or your health?
  • Do you frequently think that you do not deserve happiness or money, or that it is too difficult to get them?
If you do, then you will close your mind, see no opportunities, and behave and react in such ways, as to repel people and opportunities.
The mind often, doesn't judge or examine thoughts and opinions before accepting them. If what it hears, sees and reads is always negative, it accepts this as a standard.
The media constantly bombards the mind with a lot of information about disasters, catastrophes, wars and other unhappy events. This information sinks into the subconscious mind, and then, manifests as your habitual manner of thinking. By occupying the mind with depressing and pessimistic thoughts you radiate negative energy into the surrounding world, and therefore, create and recreate more negativity, failures and disasters.
The mind is neutral energy. The way you think determines whether the results are positive and beneficial, or negative and harmful. It is the same energy acting in different ways.
The good news is that persistent inner work can change habits of thinking. You must be willing to put energy and time to pursue positive thinking, in order to change your mental attitude.

Simple Tips to Overcome Negative Thinking:

  1. Every time you catch yourself thinking a negative thought, replace the thought with a positive one.
  2. If you catch yourself visualizing failure, visualize success instead.
  3. If you hear yourself using negative words in your conversation, switch to positive words.
  4. Instead of saying, "I cannot", say, "I can". Most of the time you can, but choose to say "cannot", due to fear, laziness or lack of self esteem.
  5. >Do you repeat negative words and phrases in your mind? Change them to positive ones. Yes, this requires you to be more alert, and to expend some effort, but you want to change negative thinking into positive thinking, don't you?
  6. Allow more positive attitude into your life. Have more faith in yourself and expect positive results. Affirmations and visualization can take you a long way in this direction.
  7. Decide that from today, from this very moment, you are leaving negative thinking behind you, and starting on the way toward positive thinking and behavior.

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My Favorite Inspirational Quotes

I love quotes because it consists of so much experience and journeys of someone inside a short sentence. It is like a picture that tells a thousand words, a quote shared a thousand steps of experience. It can even be the sentence that keeps you going, with your great times and also hard times. Somehow it will provoke your thought and actions to be different than you used to take, and grows within one’s wisdom.
Hereby share with everyone some of the great quotes I love, and I do create a separate Quotes post for some of the Quotes here, as they’re great and I love to share with everyone these beautiful quotes of Wise people.


1. Defeat is not the worst of failures. Not to have tried is the true failure. | George Edward Woodberry

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2. We are what we repeatedly do. Excellence then, is not an act, but a habit. | Aristotle

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3. That which does not kill us makes us stronger. | Friedrich Nietzsche

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4. Be careful the environment you choose for it will shape you; be careful the friends you choose for you will become like them. | W. Clement Stone

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5. Never argue with stupid people, they will drag you down to their level and then beat you with experience. | Mark Twain

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6. Great minds discuss concepts,

Average minds discuss events,

Small minds discuss others,

Minute minds only discuss themselves. | Eleanor Roosevelt

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7. Insanity: Doing the same thing over and over again and expecting different results. | Albert Einstein

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8. Books are the quietest and most constant of friends; they are the most accessible and wisest of counselors, and the most patient of teachers. | Charles W. Eliot

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9. Watch your thoughts; they become words.
Watch your words; they become actions.
Watch your actions; they become habits.
Watch your habits; they become character.
Watch your character; it becomes your destiny. Lao Tzu


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10. Knowing is not enough; we must apply. Willing is not enough: we must do. | Bruce Lee

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11. If today were the last day of my life, would I want to do what I am about to do today?” And whenever the answer has been “No” for too many days in a row, I know I need to change something. | Steve Jobs


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12. I’d rather be hated for who I am,
than loved for who I am not. | Kurt Cobain


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13. Never let your memories be greater than your dream. | Doug Ivester

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14. Be yourself; everyone else is already taken. | Oscar Wilde


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15. Whether you think you can or whether you think you can’t, you’re right. | Henry Ford

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16. Everyone thinks of changing the World, but no one thinks of changing himself. | Leo Tolstoy

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17. It is not because things are difficult that we do not dare; it is because we do not dare that things are difficult. | Seneca


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18. If you’re not willing to risk, you cannot grow. If you cannot grow, you cannot be your best. IF you cannot be your best, you cannot be happy. If you cannot be happy, what else is there? | Les Brown

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19. Some people like my advice so much that they frame it upon the wall instead of using it. | Gordon R. Dickson


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20. What you do not want done to yourself, do not do to others. | Confucius

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Remember that quotes are beautiful, but if you just remember it without it inspire you to take real actions to change and moving forward in a better way, it is useless.
So what is your favorite quote/s that inspire you all the way down the road? Let’s share it in the comment box down here. :)

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Monday, 27 April 2015

Quotes to Inspire


                         Quotes to Inspire

  • The way to get ahead is to start now! 

—William Feather
  • Action cures fear. 

—David Swartz
  • If you can do more, you should. 

—Robert Redford
  • It’s not constantly; it’s consistently. 

—Lynn Hagedorn
  • Delay not to seize the hour! 

—Aeschylus
  • Listen to those who do…. 

—Michael S. Clouse
  • Failure is success if we learn from it. 

—Malcolm S. Forbes
  • Lead by example… Enough said. 

—Michael S. Clouse
  • Do it now! Do it Now!! Do it NOW!!!

—Michael S. Clouse
  • Character is destiny. 

—Heraclitus
  • The past does not equal the future. 

—Anthony Robbins
  • The major key to your better future is you! 

—Jim Rohn
  • Nothing happens unless first we dream. 

—Carl Sandburg

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